You wish she was more turned on.

More excited to make love. More drawn to you.
But the more time that passes without real intimacy, the more you feel something closing inside you - resentment building, walls going up, the gap between you widening.
The harder you try to turn her on, the more she resists.

Part of you wants to blame her for this, but you know she’s not the problem.
It's that you haven’t learned how to hold empowered desire - or how to lead from a place so grounded that her openness becomes a natural response to who you are.

This is the work of Love & Purpose.

Let's Go

Love & Purpose is a 3-month program for committed men who are ready to break the cycles of rejection, resentment, and sexless disconnection in their relationship.

Through group calls, weekly practice, and 1-1 coaching, you'll develop the emotional awareness, sexual confidence, and depth of presence to lead yourself, and your partner, into new levels of intimacy, pleasure, and erotic aliveness.

For 90 days, you'll be immersed in a container with men who share your care and devotion.
You will engage with teachings and practices that will change how you see yourself and the deeper meaning of your relationship.

THIS IS FOR YOU IF:

You're in a committed relationship that feels stagnant, and you need more - more desire, more aliveness, more intimacy
You've been taking her lack of desire personally, and it's starting to affect how you see yourself
You feel resentful, closed off, disconnected - and you can’t keep pretending to be fine
You know that you can’t keep waiting for her to change and you’re ready to start showing up differently
You want to know your own power - not just as an idea or belief, but as something you can actually feel in your body and live from every day.

Will Mailey

"What this work brought me was a grounded security in myself. I was struggling with jealousy, questioning the longevity of my relationship. But really, I just needed to express myself authentically - and that has changed everything."

Maxim Pavon

"I really got to see how I was holding back from moving towards erotic connection. I was afraid of rejection. This group has helped me drop my shield and feel my power."

Patrick Giannaccini

"Things feel so much better with my fiance. This program was a total breakthrough. We celebrated our two year anniversary last night, and it was so special. I feel so much more regulated, slowing down - less pressure."

WHAT YOU WALK AWAY WITH

The awareness to catch a moment of sexual craving before impulsively acting on it - and turn it into connection instead
A felt sense of your own power that doesn't depend on her turn-on or desire
The ability to understand your emotions clearly - what you're feeling, what you need, and how to meet yourself fully
The capacity to express your desires and needs boldly, authentically, and vulnerably
The confidence to lead your partner with attunement and unshakable presence - erotically and emotionally
A brotherhood of men doing this work alongside you

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HOW IT WORKS

P I E S
A Integrated Framework that Becomes an
Embodied Way of Being.

Personal Work

The problem isn't that she doesn't want to have sex with you. It's that your need for sex is creating pressure, and pressure is killing her desire. Learn to meet your needs consciously, feel your deeper emotions, and come to her from a grounded, empowered place of wholeness.

Intimacy Work

She can't open her sex if she doesn't feel safe to open her heart. She needs to feel you and trust that you can feel her. Learn to express yourself with authentic vulnerability and hold space for her charge with unshakable presence.

Erotic Work

You can only take her as deep as you've gone yourself. You must cultivate an intimate relationship with your desire, pleasure, and orgasm. Learn to attune to her body, trust your power, and lead her into ecstasy.

Soul Work

This marks the ending and new beginning of your journey. From here, you step into a new way of understanding your purpose, as well as the deeper meaning of your relationship. Learn to stand in the fires of initiation and go boldly into your next chapter.

WHAT'S INCLUDED:

Weekly Live Coaching

In-depth teachings, practices, and group support.

1-1 Accountability
Support

Weekly calls focused on your individual process.

WhatsApp Community

Resources, prompts, and
group accountability.

Weekly Videos & Practices

Lifetime access to a living library of teachings/practices.

In-Depth
1-1 Mentorship

Deep dive somatic coaching// shamanic ritual sessions

Optional
In-Person Retreat

Transformational containers to deeply integrate the work.

WHAT GRADUATES SAY

David Laboski

"Big thanks to Yosef. This container was fucking beautiful. And I see how I’ve been bottling my feelings, not expressing myself. And I want to speak! I want to live through my voice."

Seth Fineman

"I really feel the changes. I feel more confident expressing myself. More connected to my desires. This group is deeply important to me."

Vito LaVilla

"I needed this. I felt like I was regressing from the man my girlfriend fell in love with. This work has helped me come back to that open, light, curious, loving version of myself."

Meet Your Guide

Welcome,

My name is Yosef Hayim.

I am a devoted student of life, love, sex, and death.

Before stepping into the world of relationship coaching, I worked in schools. I got a master's degree in education from the University of Pennsylvania, and in my late 20s, I was geared to transform the paradigm of social-emotional learning in schools across the world.

But, life had other plans for me, as I found my way into the world of sacred sexuality through completing multiple trainings with the International School of Temple Arts.

Those trainings revealed to me my deepest areas of shame and fear, as well as my greatest access to power and freedom. There was no turning back after that.

From there, I went on to study somatic coaching, group field dynamics, and sexual healing bodywork. I've also stayed involved with various men's work organizations over the years - recognizing the beautiful work of men supporting men, while also seeing the strong need for men's work that integrates sexuality.

My approach to relational work is integrative, embodied, and practical. I bring together tools and practices from diverse traditions and teach them in ways that not only appeal to the mind, but can be felt through the body.

In addition to Love & Purpose, I serve on the faculty of Dance Meets Tantra. I am a co-founder of Synthesis Wisdom School. And, I continue to be cooked and molded through the ongoing journey of partnership with my wife - with whom I get to put all this work to practice.

PRICING

Multiple options to meet you where you're at.

Group Journey
$2,500

Weekly group coaching
Weekly 1-1 support calls
WhatsApp Community
Lifetime access to the Love & Purpose video library

Payment Plan:
3x payments of $880

Deep Dive
$3,000

Everything in the group journey PLUS 3x 60 minute 1-1 somatic coaching//shamanic ritual sessions.

Payment Plan:
3x payments of $1,060

Full Send
$3,500

Everything in the group journey PLUS 6x 60 minute 1-1 somatic coaching//shamanic ritual sessions.

Payment Plan:
3x payments of $1,220

The best time to do this work was a year ago.
The second best time is right now.

Next Round Begins

July 13, 2026

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